.The presenter, 46, admitted this week that she's lost her
sex drive
.Revealed that she'd given him permission to sleep with other
women
.Today her husband explained he would 'never contemplate'
doing so
.Couple have been married for 11 years and raise two children
together
.Panellist Sherrie Hewson revealed her ex did sleep with
other women
By UNITY BLOTT and KATE THOMAS FOR BE INFORMED
PUBLISHED: 12:51 GMT, 20 May 2016 | UPDATED: 16:41 GMT, 20
May 2016
Saira Khan broke down on Loose Women today as her husband
denied the couple were in an 'open relationship' - saying that he would never
even consider sleeping with another woman.
Their appearance on the ITV show came after Saira's
revelation earlier this week that she had given Steven Hyde permission to cheat
on her due to her lack of libido.
But today her husband of 11 years said he was 'devastated'
and 'heartbroken' at the very suggestion - and said his wife should know that
he would stand by her during this time.
Emotional: Saira Khan burst into tears live on air as she
admitted 'a weight has been lifted' following her revelation this week that she
no longer wants sex with her husband of 11 years, Steven Hyde
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Saira spoke to the panel before Steven (left) appeared
alone, saying: 'To be honest I was pretty devastated for her really, to think
that she would even think, that she needed to say something like that to me'
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Explaining the reasons for her loss of libido today, Saira
said: 'I have put the pressure on myself. I'm a working mum, I'm a daughter,
I'm a friend, I'm a parent. 'There's a lot of pressure and i want to do
everything well'
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Earlier this week, Saira startled viewers of the ITV
programme with her revelation that she had given her husband permission to
sleep with another woman as she can no longer satisfy him in the bedroom
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Steven joined the panellists on Loose Women to discuss his
wife's revelation. He he was 'pretty devastated' when his wife first suggested
he sleep with someone else, saying: 'It's nothing that i would even contemplate
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Saira spoke to the panel before Steven appeared alone,
saying: 'To be honest I was pretty devastated for her really, to think that she
would even think, that she needed to say something like that to me, because
it's something that I would never contemplate doing and never think about
doing.
'The idea for me, of what people talk about as an open
relationship is, well, it's just not for me, it's nonsense.
'So I felt really troubled, I felt heartbroken that she had
got to such a point really, such a low point that she felt the need to say
something like that.'
Saira revealed she had been 'quite frightened' about the
reaction from her husband, who was at work at the time and normally shies away
from the public eye - admitting that in hindsight she would 'probably not' have
made the comments about avoiding sex with him.
Explaining the reasons for her loss of libido, Saira said:
'I have put the pressure on myself. I'm a working mum, I'm a daughter, I'm a
friend, I'm a parent.
'There's a lot of pressure and i want to do everything well.
When the pressure is there i think this (gesturing to her groin) shuts down.
Discussing their relationship, Steven said: 'We're massively close and i think we've got
a good marriage and a great family,' at which point a tearful Saira joined him
on stage and embraced him in front of cameras
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Happier times: Saira married internet company boss Steven
Hyde, from Essex, in 2005 after they met in 2002
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'When I talked about this it feels like a heavy burden has
been lifted, it feels lighter.' She also thanked fans and viewers for talking
about the 'taboo subject'.
Steven told panellists he was 'pretty devastated' when his
wife first suggested he sleep with someone else, saying: 'It's nothing that i
would even contemplate doing.
'An open relationship isn't for me. I felt heartbroken that
she'd come to such a low point that she felt the need to say something like
that.'
He added: 'We're massively close and i think we've got a
good marriage and a great family,' at which point a tearful Saira joined him on
stage and embraced him in front of cameras.
Panellist Sherrie Hewson, 65, said she thought Steven's
response was 'wonderful', saying: 'I said the same thing to my husband... and
he did.' The ex-Coronation Street actress was married to Ken Boyd for nine
years before splitting in 2001.
After the show Saira tweeted a message to her husband,
writing: 'Thank you @StevenPush for being my rock, I love you and so do all the
girls and boys @loosewomen - You are an amazing person.'
Long-term romance: The TV personality and her husband Steven
Hyde have been married for 11 years and raise two children together
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Saira - who was the runner-up on the first series of The
Apprentice in 2005 - confessed: 'I'm 46, I have a busy life and have two kids.
I am so lucky.
'We used to have a fantastic sex life. I still love my
husband, we cuddle up and it's lovely. We've been together for 11 years, but
I'm not interested [in sex]. I don't want to.
'I've lost the desire and I find myself making excuses from
around 6pm.
The TV personality went on to admit she tried every trick in
the book to avoid a tryst with her husband, until she finally fessed up and
told him he should sleep with another woman.
She explained: 'The other day, I was dressed up to go out
and he told me I looked nice and I was like, "Thanks!", and ran out
of the door.
'I've lost the desire': The former Apprentice star said she
used to make excuses to avoid sleeping with her husband until she told him how
she was feeling
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'Am I the only one?': Saira's fellow panellists were
surprised by her admission, but revealed they weren't always in the mood
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'As soon as he comes home, I panic and start saying,
"I'm so tired!". I'm embarrassed to say this but I said to him you
can go with someone esle if you want.
While her fellow panelists were surprised by her confession,
Coleen Nolan agreed that it was sometimes difficult to get into the right mood.
She said: 'You don't always fancy it and then it takes 20 seconds to get in the
mood and sometimes another 20 to do it'.
Saira's confession sparked a flurry of positive comments on
Twitter, with many praising the star for her honesty.
One viewer wrote: 'I hear you sister! #loosewomen thanks for
your honesty and candid discussion today on this sensitive subject,' while another
added: 'you were very brave today, being so frank and honest. In the same boat,
as are thousands of others.'
Honest: The Loose Women panelists were stunned by Saira's
frank confession, but were wholly supportive
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Saira admitted she was overwhelmed by the support, tweeting
after the show: 'Wow ladies - so many of you out there feel like me I'm not
alone. Thank you for all your lovely lovely messages today regarding the sex
topic - I really appreciate it!! Xx'
The Apprentice star was also quick to respond to some
criticism, after one tweeter told her that 'certain things should be kept in
house. Here is hoping the children don't read this'.
'I like to share so it can help others and make people feel
better that they are not the only ones!' Saira replied.
Saira married internet company boss Steve, from Essex, in
2005 after they met in 2002.
In 2008 the couple, who now live in Oxford, welcomed their
baby boy, Zachariah via IVF. Saira
suffers with endometriosis and had to undergo fertility treatment to get
pregnant with her son.
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